Made in Richmond

Ross and I spent a lot of time talking about some major decisions coming down the road for us, the most expensive of which involving where/when we are going to move. We’re not sure what the best decision is yet, but whichever path we choose will require big fat checks with more zeros than I want to think about.

Back when we were getting ready to buy our first house, we spent essentially no money. We ate at home, we hung out at home, we got the occasional dinner out when my in-laws were in town, but that was it. It paid off and a few months later we wrote the biggest check of our entire lives.

It took us a while to realize that we didn’t need to live such a stingy life once our savings account had been replenished. But eventually, we settled into a fairly relaxed (but by no means decadent) approach to money. Blessedly, we have never had a situation where a financial need arose that we didn’t have the cash on hand to cover it. We both work very hard and have somehow managed to become fairly comfortable pretty early in our life together.

We’ll be down-shifting back to a spending freeze over the next few months. Fewer nights out, more meals at home, and and no more impulse buys for anything at all. And while I’m somewhat dreading having to be super-conscious of every penny, Ross and I do so well when we’ve got something like this focus on. Solidarity comes out of shared sacrifice and I’m excited for what these lean times will bring.